How can i kiss my boyfriend?
ok..so my first kiss was with my boyfriend and i wasnt expecting such a kiss. he basically attacked me with his tounge and i didnt really like it. that was 3 weeks ago!! i havent kissed him since then. so i want to kiss him now but he says he doesnt like to kiss when theres alot of people. but the kind of kissing he is talking about is lip locking. but i dont want to do that! it turned me off a little last time. so if he tries to kiss me, hes going to give me tounge. hes a foreign exchange student from poland so i think the only kissing he knows is lip locking hahaha. how do i tell him not to?
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1 :
Just come out straight with it and explain :)
2 :
pull away when he starts doing that..
3 :
just pucker ur lips up so he can't put it in
4 :
be like watch and take hold of his cheeks lightly and kiss him on his lips but not all porn starness. thats what i had to do to my boyfriend well ex sorta but yea and it worked.
5 :
U can try giving him smooches. Tell him not to be that rough on you. Or just make facial expressions just to let him understand.
6 :
just kiss him on the cheek or lips for like a short second. when no 1 is lookin. he will get this pic like say u have a date. and its the end of it. just kiss him shortly on the lips and then on his cheek. he mite learn the difference
7 :
Just tell him you are not ready for tonuges yet. Tongues are very lusty and not really for new relationships. Just put lips together gently for now, its much nicer, you both will get a thrill from it.
8 :
I suppose if you suprise him with a few of your own style of kissing he might get the idea of what you enjoy. If not, i guess you'll just have to be blunt about it.
9 :
just tell him to go back to poland
10 :
Just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable lol. i made out with a girl one time that pretty much just opened her mouth and stuck her tongue straight out lol. The next time we made out i started it out slow and turned it into the perfect kiss.. so go slow and if that doesnt work then maybe yall can meet somewhere in the middle
11 :
So, just come out and tell him straight that his kissing skills sucks (and NOT in a good way), and work on making some changes.
12 :
Oh. Well, teach him! :) Tell him that you like "closed mouth" kisses and see what he does.
13 :
First sit him down and tell him what he did and how it made you feel. Then let him explain his side. After that tell him what you wish to do and ask him to do the same then find a compromise and see how it works out.
14 :
just tell him you dont want that just little pecks http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090114145834AAK9ykD
15 :
Tell him to tone it down a bit. Being honest is the best thing to do. and be upfront about it, but polite.
16 :
Teach him! That happened to me before too. As soon as it happened, I pulled away and I told him "No no. Follow my lead alright?" in a very nice way. He was okay with it and he learned how to kiss the right way. Don't be scared to tell him. He will be okay with it because even after he screwed up, you were nice enough to tell him how you like it. good luck!
17 :
either teach him how you want him to use his tongue while making out.....or just tell him the whole tongue thing isn't working for you. he'll never know if you don't tell him.
18 :
So he was a little over eager. Give him another chance, but first tell him what your expecting from the kiss tell him he needs to be more vanilla, but no less passionate with hiss lips & make sure he uses something to freshen his breathe.
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