HELP ME I'M A GIRL CHALLENGED LOSER?
I'm a 17 year old junior I go to an all guys school. 1.) i never had a girlfriend though I have/had a lot of girl friends 2.) I never kissed a girl. I dunno the moment never came and if it did, I missed it. 3.) I don't freeze up around girls but I have a tendency to be awkward or say a wrong thing. a lot of the times I don't have anything to say even though I want to. 4.) most my guy friends all have done stuff with girls and I havent and I feel like a loser because I can't even join in on the conversation. 5.) at mixers and clubs I don't dance. the girls are slutty and that's usually an automatic cue to grind with em but I always get a fear of rejection. 6.)I went out with this girl last night. we were in my house alone and we didnt do anything. I I like this girl and she might have an interest in me. problem is, she's an exchange student from Poland. f*ck me right? last night wasn't a flop but it wasn't the best night. the first night we hung out was awesome. how do I recover?? 7.) she leaves around June or July at the end of the school year. there's a chance I will never see her again. I really like her a lot but what should I do any tips will help, thanks
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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First of all the worst thing you can do is call yourself a 'girl challenged loser'. Girls love confidence! That's not exactly confident. In fact it's hurting your self esteem. How can you expect girls to like you and love you if you don't even love yourself? You need to do things that put yourself out of your comfort zone. That's the only way you're going to change. Dance with girls at mixers and clubs, who cares if they're sluts. It's like you're going to date them. Just have a good time. Talk to them. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable! About the girl from Poland : ask her out again. Take her to do something that you really enjoy doing. Girls really like that. Compliment her, make her laugh. Be yourself. Don't worry too much about the future, just think more about the now. You never know what tomorrow will bring. -Good luck & hope this helps!
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Man, you have great opportunity! She is alone, abroad, encircled with (i guess) Americans, who doesn't have a good opinion in Poland... give her what other guys can't give! Which means: - Be a gentleman: open the door for her, help her with coat, walk her home or at least make sure she reached home safe and sound. - Care for her: offer her your jacket if you think it's cold. My ex bf used to bring me a hot donut in winter, when it was cold and i was hungry after finishing my classes in late afternoon. That was great! We are laso very patriotic and we like our traditions. 6th December is a St. Nicholas day when people give eachother small gifts. You can impress her with sth nice and small and even more with your knowledge and respect towards polish tradition. Honestly, I think that we feel a bit like 'poor relatives', comparing to Western countries. Being interested in Poland and stressing that we are important and have great achievements would make her feel better. Find out when is her b-day. - Don't push. There's nothing worse than a guy that is desperate on getting laid. You'll notice the moment when she'll want to have closer physical contact. That can be your advantage on yoiur friends. - Offer her some sort of activities that you both like, and that can be an excuse to see eachother regularly: movie club, dance course, volunteering once a week...(the last one will also mean that you are more 'deep' than the others...)
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Monday, October 28, 2013
Monday, October 14, 2013
Can someone help me to correct a sentence?
Can someone help me to correct a sentence?
Hi, first off - I'm a student from Poland who learns English and I've been struggling with one sentence. If you can just help me to correct it (if it's wrong in any way), I'd really appreciate that... and here it goes: You really did great with this video or You came out really well. which one is better? because I just want to tell my friend that the interview with him that I watched on TV is OK and I want to praise him... and..."So well that I'm about to prepare a coffee for myself right now, I/me (??) who hardly ever drink it!!" correct? you can of course make as many changes as possible to make it sound good.. thanks guys a lot! Many thanks Reeble! :) How can I now rate your answers as best?? I'm new to yahoo answers and don't know how I can do this... Anyway, he's coffe hunter that's why I wanted to make some coffee for myself ;)
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You could say: You did really well in this interview. So well that I'm about to make myself some coffee, and I hardly ever drink it!
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You really did great with this video. I don't understand what do you try to say in the other sentence, I believe it says something like: "Well, I'm about to prepare a coffee for myself, me who hardly even drinks it!" correctly written, but please tell me what does the sentence you wrote means because I might be changing the sense. OH, reeading Reeble's answer now I got it, say it as she answered you, she's correct!
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You might want to say, "I think you did quite well on your television interview." I wish you the best of luck in your studies!!!
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Hi, first off - I'm a student from Poland who learns English and I've been struggling with one sentence. If you can just help me to correct it (if it's wrong in any way), I'd really appreciate that... and here it goes: You really did great with this video or You came out really well. which one is better? because I just want to tell my friend that the interview with him that I watched on TV is OK and I want to praise him... and..."So well that I'm about to prepare a coffee for myself right now, I/me (??) who hardly ever drink it!!" correct? you can of course make as many changes as possible to make it sound good.. thanks guys a lot! Many thanks Reeble! :) How can I now rate your answers as best?? I'm new to yahoo answers and don't know how I can do this... Anyway, he's coffe hunter that's why I wanted to make some coffee for myself ;)
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You could say: You did really well in this interview. So well that I'm about to make myself some coffee, and I hardly ever drink it!
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You really did great with this video. I don't understand what do you try to say in the other sentence, I believe it says something like: "Well, I'm about to prepare a coffee for myself, me who hardly even drinks it!" correctly written, but please tell me what does the sentence you wrote means because I might be changing the sense. OH, reeading Reeble's answer now I got it, say it as she answered you, she's correct!
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You might want to say, "I think you did quite well on your television interview." I wish you the best of luck in your studies!!!
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Monday, October 7, 2013
Can someone please check my English writing?
Can someone please check my English writing?
I need some help with camp america application :) subject: Personal Essay - Please write about your family, interests, hobbies and other experiences which will make you a good staff member. A camp environment can often require you to show initiative and leadership. Please give examples when you have used these characteristics in your professional/educational career. Please write 2-3 paragraphs about yourself. I am 21 years old student from Poland and I lived in Wałbrzych with my parents untill I moved out 70 miles from my home to Opole where I am studing now. I visit my mom and dad twice a month or even more often. I have a brother which is three years older than me. He just finished officer school and unfortunately we rarely see each other. I don't have much free time but when I find some I like spend it in such away that I feel relaxed like singing or playing guitar because I love it. Besides I love to learn new things. On summer vacation a few years ago I worked on summer camp in the kitchen. I started this job a few weeks after other employees so I was new there. I acclimatised very quickly and after few days I knew everything about this job. In conclusion I think I am communicative, outgoing and flexible person who does not give up easly. I hope that working on camp in USA help me fulfill my dream and it will be a wonderful andventure.
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I am a 21 year old student from Poland and I lived in Wałbrzych with my parents until I moved out 70 miles from my home to Opole where I am studding now. I visit my mom and dad twice a month or more. I have a brother who is three years older than me. He just finished officer school and unfortunately we rarely see each other. I don't have much free time but when I find some I like to spend it in such a way that I feel relaxed. For example, I like singing or playing guitar because it relaxes me. Besides, I love to learn new things. On summer vacation a few years ago I worked at a summer camp in the kitchen. I started this job a few weeks after other employees so I was new there. I acclimatised very quickly, and after just a few days, I knew everything about the job. In conclusion, I think I am communicative, outgoing, and a flexible person who does not give up easily. I hope that working on camp in the USA will help me fulfill my dream and it will be a wonderful adventure. It was a wonderful application. I believe you should add what your dream is in the last sentence. It would help clear a few things up. You're English is very good. You only had a few minor mistakes Good luck and I hope you get the job!
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I am a 21 year old student from Poland and I used to live in Walbrzych with my parents until I moved 70 miles away from my home to Opole, where I am living now. (I made it in the present tense) I visit my parents twice a month or more. (parents is easier to say than mom and dad, and often or even more often seems kind of repetitive) I have a brother who is three years older than me. (which is refers to an object, but your brother is a person) He just finished officer school and unfortunately we rarely see each other. (Nothing wrong with this) I don't have a lot of free time but when I find some I like to spend it in such a way that I feel relaxed. I enjoy both singing and playing guitar. (It sounds better as two sentences than one, and there are some miscellaneous errors in grammar) (from here on out I'm just giving suggestions as to how to word it better) I also love to learn new things. On summer vacation a few years ago I worked at summer camp in the kitchen. I started this job a few weeks after other employees so I was new there. I acclimatised very quickly and after a few days I knew everything about this job. In conclusion, I think I am a communicative, outgoing and flexible person who does not give up easily. I hope that working in Camp America will help me fulfill my dream and it will be a wonderful adventure. Hope I helped.
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Tuesday, October 1, 2013
How can i kiss my boyfriend?
How can i kiss my boyfriend?
ok..so my first kiss was with my boyfriend and i wasnt expecting such a kiss. he basically attacked me with his tounge and i didnt really like it. that was 3 weeks ago!! i havent kissed him since then. so i want to kiss him now but he says he doesnt like to kiss when theres alot of people. but the kind of kissing he is talking about is lip locking. but i dont want to do that! it turned me off a little last time. so if he tries to kiss me, hes going to give me tounge. hes a foreign exchange student from poland so i think the only kissing he knows is lip locking hahaha. how do i tell him not to?
Singles & Dating - 18 Answers
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Just come out straight with it and explain :)
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pull away when he starts doing that..
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just pucker ur lips up so he can't put it in
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be like watch and take hold of his cheeks lightly and kiss him on his lips but not all porn starness. thats what i had to do to my boyfriend well ex sorta but yea and it worked.
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U can try giving him smooches. Tell him not to be that rough on you. Or just make facial expressions just to let him understand.
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just kiss him on the cheek or lips for like a short second. when no 1 is lookin. he will get this pic like say u have a date. and its the end of it. just kiss him shortly on the lips and then on his cheek. he mite learn the difference
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Just tell him you are not ready for tonuges yet. Tongues are very lusty and not really for new relationships. Just put lips together gently for now, its much nicer, you both will get a thrill from it.
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I suppose if you suprise him with a few of your own style of kissing he might get the idea of what you enjoy. If not, i guess you'll just have to be blunt about it.
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just tell him to go back to poland
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Just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable lol. i made out with a girl one time that pretty much just opened her mouth and stuck her tongue straight out lol. The next time we made out i started it out slow and turned it into the perfect kiss.. so go slow and if that doesnt work then maybe yall can meet somewhere in the middle
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So, just come out and tell him straight that his kissing skills sucks (and NOT in a good way), and work on making some changes.
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Oh. Well, teach him! :) Tell him that you like "closed mouth" kisses and see what he does.
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First sit him down and tell him what he did and how it made you feel. Then let him explain his side. After that tell him what you wish to do and ask him to do the same then find a compromise and see how it works out.
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just tell him you dont want that just little pecks http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090114145834AAK9ykD
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Tell him to tone it down a bit. Being honest is the best thing to do. and be upfront about it, but polite.
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Teach him! That happened to me before too. As soon as it happened, I pulled away and I told him "No no. Follow my lead alright?" in a very nice way. He was okay with it and he learned how to kiss the right way. Don't be scared to tell him. He will be okay with it because even after he screwed up, you were nice enough to tell him how you like it. good luck!
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either teach him how you want him to use his tongue while making out.....or just tell him the whole tongue thing isn't working for you. he'll never know if you don't tell him.
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So he was a little over eager. Give him another chance, but first tell him what your expecting from the kiss tell him he needs to be more vanilla, but no less passionate with hiss lips & make sure he uses something to freshen his breathe.
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ok..so my first kiss was with my boyfriend and i wasnt expecting such a kiss. he basically attacked me with his tounge and i didnt really like it. that was 3 weeks ago!! i havent kissed him since then. so i want to kiss him now but he says he doesnt like to kiss when theres alot of people. but the kind of kissing he is talking about is lip locking. but i dont want to do that! it turned me off a little last time. so if he tries to kiss me, hes going to give me tounge. hes a foreign exchange student from poland so i think the only kissing he knows is lip locking hahaha. how do i tell him not to?
Singles & Dating - 18 Answers
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Just come out straight with it and explain :)
2 :
pull away when he starts doing that..
3 :
just pucker ur lips up so he can't put it in
4 :
be like watch and take hold of his cheeks lightly and kiss him on his lips but not all porn starness. thats what i had to do to my boyfriend well ex sorta but yea and it worked.
5 :
U can try giving him smooches. Tell him not to be that rough on you. Or just make facial expressions just to let him understand.
6 :
just kiss him on the cheek or lips for like a short second. when no 1 is lookin. he will get this pic like say u have a date. and its the end of it. just kiss him shortly on the lips and then on his cheek. he mite learn the difference
7 :
Just tell him you are not ready for tonuges yet. Tongues are very lusty and not really for new relationships. Just put lips together gently for now, its much nicer, you both will get a thrill from it.
8 :
I suppose if you suprise him with a few of your own style of kissing he might get the idea of what you enjoy. If not, i guess you'll just have to be blunt about it.
9 :
just tell him to go back to poland
10 :
Just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable lol. i made out with a girl one time that pretty much just opened her mouth and stuck her tongue straight out lol. The next time we made out i started it out slow and turned it into the perfect kiss.. so go slow and if that doesnt work then maybe yall can meet somewhere in the middle
11 :
So, just come out and tell him straight that his kissing skills sucks (and NOT in a good way), and work on making some changes.
12 :
Oh. Well, teach him! :) Tell him that you like "closed mouth" kisses and see what he does.
13 :
First sit him down and tell him what he did and how it made you feel. Then let him explain his side. After that tell him what you wish to do and ask him to do the same then find a compromise and see how it works out.
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just tell him you dont want that just little pecks http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090114145834AAK9ykD
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Tell him to tone it down a bit. Being honest is the best thing to do. and be upfront about it, but polite.
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Teach him! That happened to me before too. As soon as it happened, I pulled away and I told him "No no. Follow my lead alright?" in a very nice way. He was okay with it and he learned how to kiss the right way. Don't be scared to tell him. He will be okay with it because even after he screwed up, you were nice enough to tell him how you like it. good luck!
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either teach him how you want him to use his tongue while making out.....or just tell him the whole tongue thing isn't working for you. he'll never know if you don't tell him.
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So he was a little over eager. Give him another chance, but first tell him what your expecting from the kiss tell him he needs to be more vanilla, but no less passionate with hiss lips & make sure he uses something to freshen his breathe.
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Saturday, September 28, 2013
OK serious question cause I am kinda torn apart?
OK serious question cause I am kinda torn apart?
I am a law student from Poland and in first semester I do not have any classes ( yeah it's weird). Anyway I got a work permit from canadian embassy in Poland and now I'm not sure what to do - stay or go. I do have a job interview on wednesday in Toronto but its not a sure thing. Partly I'd love to go to Canada, new surrounding, new people, besides I like to travel. I feel like I would eventually find some job there. But from the other side I am a bit scared of costs of living there or getting a room, or not finding a job. That's why I am hesitating. If you have any advice please help, would really appreciate that. Thanks in advance I am talking of 3-4 months stay in Canada
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Definitely try to secure a job first. Ask your friends, family, pull strings, ask for favours--but try to get a hook-up before you fly overseas. If you cant, and just plan on winging it, then why not. There are a lot of job opportunities here, Canada wasn't hit by the recession nearly as hard as other parts of the world. So odds are, yeah, you'd eventually get a job. If you want to play it safe, just make sure you have some money saved up first. Cost of living is exaggerated in Toronto, but still high. I recommend looking at Craigslist first to get a feel of what the prices are, and frequently referencing Google maps to make sure you're in the right area, or close to your job. Otherwise, Toronto is fabulous, and Im sure you'll love it, even if you do just end up visiting. While you're here, you could also visit Niagara Falls, Ottawa, even Montreal or Quebec City if you felt like it. Hope it works out :)
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I am a law student from Poland and in first semester I do not have any classes ( yeah it's weird). Anyway I got a work permit from canadian embassy in Poland and now I'm not sure what to do - stay or go. I do have a job interview on wednesday in Toronto but its not a sure thing. Partly I'd love to go to Canada, new surrounding, new people, besides I like to travel. I feel like I would eventually find some job there. But from the other side I am a bit scared of costs of living there or getting a room, or not finding a job. That's why I am hesitating. If you have any advice please help, would really appreciate that. Thanks in advance I am talking of 3-4 months stay in Canada
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Definitely try to secure a job first. Ask your friends, family, pull strings, ask for favours--but try to get a hook-up before you fly overseas. If you cant, and just plan on winging it, then why not. There are a lot of job opportunities here, Canada wasn't hit by the recession nearly as hard as other parts of the world. So odds are, yeah, you'd eventually get a job. If you want to play it safe, just make sure you have some money saved up first. Cost of living is exaggerated in Toronto, but still high. I recommend looking at Craigslist first to get a feel of what the prices are, and frequently referencing Google maps to make sure you're in the right area, or close to your job. Otherwise, Toronto is fabulous, and Im sure you'll love it, even if you do just end up visiting. While you're here, you could also visit Niagara Falls, Ottawa, even Montreal or Quebec City if you felt like it. Hope it works out :)
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Saturday, September 14, 2013
I've been to Poland to take my daughter to her 1st day at school, it was excelent why does the UK allow?
I've been to Poland to take my daughter to her 1st day at school, it was excelent why does the UK allow?
Anything other than integration? Had the school flag with the Polish eagle 'a' top, all the kids had to make an oath to be good students etc etc.. The flag a school moto on one side & the Polish flag on the other, I've no issue with that as my daughter is Polish citizen. Why doesn't the 'UK' bring in a similar thing? - English, Scots or Welsh flag & a commitment to integration? UK terms 1st day at Primeray school - she is nearly 7. Rachel, I'm not American but I can see the Balkanisation of the UK - it is not multiculturislism! Or a European thing other than the UK!
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Because we simply don't need it. We know how to behave we don't need to make a promise about it. I mean how many people keep their promises? eh not many. Plus, and im not trying to offend anyone but doing that sort of thing is an American type thing. British people are not American therefore why should we follow the same procedures?
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Anything other than integration? Had the school flag with the Polish eagle 'a' top, all the kids had to make an oath to be good students etc etc.. The flag a school moto on one side & the Polish flag on the other, I've no issue with that as my daughter is Polish citizen. Why doesn't the 'UK' bring in a similar thing? - English, Scots or Welsh flag & a commitment to integration? UK terms 1st day at Primeray school - she is nearly 7. Rachel, I'm not American but I can see the Balkanisation of the UK - it is not multiculturislism! Or a European thing other than the UK!
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Because we simply don't need it. We know how to behave we don't need to make a promise about it. I mean how many people keep their promises? eh not many. Plus, and im not trying to offend anyone but doing that sort of thing is an American type thing. British people are not American therefore why should we follow the same procedures?
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Saturday, September 7, 2013
Should I tell her I love her?
Should I tell her I love her?
I've been with my girlfriend twice. She is a foreign exchange student from poland. The first time we were dating, we were dating for about 2 1/2 months. I told her I loved her too early and she broke up with me. She said that she didn't want to get in a serious relationship before she went back to poland. Anyway a month went by and I got the attraction going again and we've now been dating ever since. We just hit 5 months a couple weeks ago, 3 if you don't count the first two months. We've gotten really really close since then, and she is leaving in 7 days. I don't think I really loved her before, but now I know for a fact I do. I love her deeply and I don't want to see her go. I'm afraid to tell her how I feel because I don't want to push her away again. Even though she's leaving, I'm going to Poland for a couple weeks this summer, so I'm afraid to drop the L bomb. How do I know if I should or if she's ready? brittany, you're fuckin stupid... your answer is irrelavant she always talks about how much she's going to miss me, last night she told me she had a dream that I was the one leaving and not her.
Singles & Dating - 11 Answers
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Well look 7days is too less to know anything. You should have started preparing her mentally atleast 2-3 weeks back. However, what you can do is tell her. I mean you'll atleast try. If she says no then however, she's gonna go. Try your best to get a yes. Best of Luck mate.
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Why don't you ask her if she is looking for a serious relationship first...
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ask her to see wat she feels about the relationship now.she probably dont want to say it ethier because there is someone else but ask her how do she feel and y do she keeps traveling back and fourth
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sure go for it answer me plz http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100523180920AAnU69M
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Don't drop the L bomb again but ask her you know about taking your dating to another level.....like a relationship and see how she responds just ask her but don't make it seem like you need an answer right then and there keep it simple. You can't force someone to like you as much as you like them if meant to be then its meant to be if not even though it may be hard you may have to just move on if she doesn't feel the same way by now.
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Well if you love her, then i say let her know. 5 months is long enough for someone to fall in love and seriously if she didn't love you back..they why is she hanging around? Oh and tell her this: kocham cie [ko-hum-cher]. Which is 'i love you' in polish :)
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you know that song by John Mayor? "Say What you Need to Say" "it is better to say too much than to never have said what you needed to say." that is pretty much my motto. answer mine please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100523225538AAIykCw
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If i were you i would save it. If you are going to Poland to see her in the summer you should hold off because if it does push her away then your summer plans may be ruined. I would say save it for the trip over there, and near the end, because by going over there she will have the satisfaction of knowing you would travel at length to be with her, as in a way to prove your love.
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You scared her the first time, and maybe you'll scare her again if you say it again. However you say you've gotten to be really close with her, so maybe she'll accept it this time and maybe she feels it back. Is she always talking about leaving or is she talking about how much she'll miss you? If it's the latter, you can probably assume she has feelings for you. If it's the first, maybe you shouldn't say anything more than "I'll miss you" because you just never know. Since you'll be going to Poland anyway over the summer, I think that you should wait. You've only been dating 5 months, 3 months, whatever it is. I would want you to wait and let the love either grow or diminish before you speak anything...
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I think some people get a little scared with the whole usage of the word "love". Some people have heard it before and gotten hurt so that makes them apprehensive, or they associate it with straight away leading to things like marriage etc. Others are comfortable with it and think along the lines of: what is wrong with vocalising it if it is what I feel? So you have to decide what you're comfortable with, what you think she is comfortable with, and what the consequences of either saying it or not, could be. I think SHOWING love is very important and if you are doing that, sometimes that can be enough for a person to know how that person feels, without them having said it. If you feel that she might pull away again, think about how you would feel with just showing it and not saying it yet. If you think you can deal with this then maybe hold off a bit. But if you feel you are just bursting and need to tell her, just say it. She can either say she feels the same or get scared, or say nothing. Who knows what the outcome will be, but if you feel that it is something you really want to say, just do it and don't regret...if she isn't the one that loves you back or can at least handle the fact that you love her, then another girl in the future will... At the same time if you feel that you can be with her without having said it, then just go with the flow and enjoy the relationship without putting the words to it. good luck :o)
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my best edvice is to tell her "babe... i know ur going 2 b leaveing... and im not going not 2 see you... and im going 2 miss you all kinds... so b4 u leave i wanted to tell you... i dont think i love you but i 4 shure know IM FALLING IN LIKE WITH YOU..." any girl who doesnt think that is cute is out of this world...but annyways i think she will like it and maybe say the same... GOODLUCK :)
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I've been with my girlfriend twice. She is a foreign exchange student from poland. The first time we were dating, we were dating for about 2 1/2 months. I told her I loved her too early and she broke up with me. She said that she didn't want to get in a serious relationship before she went back to poland. Anyway a month went by and I got the attraction going again and we've now been dating ever since. We just hit 5 months a couple weeks ago, 3 if you don't count the first two months. We've gotten really really close since then, and she is leaving in 7 days. I don't think I really loved her before, but now I know for a fact I do. I love her deeply and I don't want to see her go. I'm afraid to tell her how I feel because I don't want to push her away again. Even though she's leaving, I'm going to Poland for a couple weeks this summer, so I'm afraid to drop the L bomb. How do I know if I should or if she's ready? brittany, you're fuckin stupid... your answer is irrelavant she always talks about how much she's going to miss me, last night she told me she had a dream that I was the one leaving and not her.
Singles & Dating - 11 Answers
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Well look 7days is too less to know anything. You should have started preparing her mentally atleast 2-3 weeks back. However, what you can do is tell her. I mean you'll atleast try. If she says no then however, she's gonna go. Try your best to get a yes. Best of Luck mate.
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Why don't you ask her if she is looking for a serious relationship first...
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ask her to see wat she feels about the relationship now.she probably dont want to say it ethier because there is someone else but ask her how do she feel and y do she keeps traveling back and fourth
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sure go for it answer me plz http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100523180920AAnU69M
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Don't drop the L bomb again but ask her you know about taking your dating to another level.....like a relationship and see how she responds just ask her but don't make it seem like you need an answer right then and there keep it simple. You can't force someone to like you as much as you like them if meant to be then its meant to be if not even though it may be hard you may have to just move on if she doesn't feel the same way by now.
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Well if you love her, then i say let her know. 5 months is long enough for someone to fall in love and seriously if she didn't love you back..they why is she hanging around? Oh and tell her this: kocham cie [ko-hum-cher]. Which is 'i love you' in polish :)
7 :
you know that song by John Mayor? "Say What you Need to Say" "it is better to say too much than to never have said what you needed to say." that is pretty much my motto. answer mine please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100523225538AAIykCw
8 :
If i were you i would save it. If you are going to Poland to see her in the summer you should hold off because if it does push her away then your summer plans may be ruined. I would say save it for the trip over there, and near the end, because by going over there she will have the satisfaction of knowing you would travel at length to be with her, as in a way to prove your love.
9 :
You scared her the first time, and maybe you'll scare her again if you say it again. However you say you've gotten to be really close with her, so maybe she'll accept it this time and maybe she feels it back. Is she always talking about leaving or is she talking about how much she'll miss you? If it's the latter, you can probably assume she has feelings for you. If it's the first, maybe you shouldn't say anything more than "I'll miss you" because you just never know. Since you'll be going to Poland anyway over the summer, I think that you should wait. You've only been dating 5 months, 3 months, whatever it is. I would want you to wait and let the love either grow or diminish before you speak anything...
10 :
I think some people get a little scared with the whole usage of the word "love". Some people have heard it before and gotten hurt so that makes them apprehensive, or they associate it with straight away leading to things like marriage etc. Others are comfortable with it and think along the lines of: what is wrong with vocalising it if it is what I feel? So you have to decide what you're comfortable with, what you think she is comfortable with, and what the consequences of either saying it or not, could be. I think SHOWING love is very important and if you are doing that, sometimes that can be enough for a person to know how that person feels, without them having said it. If you feel that she might pull away again, think about how you would feel with just showing it and not saying it yet. If you think you can deal with this then maybe hold off a bit. But if you feel you are just bursting and need to tell her, just say it. She can either say she feels the same or get scared, or say nothing. Who knows what the outcome will be, but if you feel that it is something you really want to say, just do it and don't regret...if she isn't the one that loves you back or can at least handle the fact that you love her, then another girl in the future will... At the same time if you feel that you can be with her without having said it, then just go with the flow and enjoy the relationship without putting the words to it. good luck :o)
11 :
my best edvice is to tell her "babe... i know ur going 2 b leaveing... and im not going not 2 see you... and im going 2 miss you all kinds... so b4 u leave i wanted to tell you... i dont think i love you but i 4 shure know IM FALLING IN LIKE WITH YOU..." any girl who doesnt think that is cute is out of this world...but annyways i think she will like it and maybe say the same... GOODLUCK :)
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